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Wonder Woman Syndrome

pace-yourself2I’ve done it again. Minus the suit, mind you.

Rhetoric aside, picking my battles wisely is not something I do easily. Not only that, changing your lifestyle and striving for quality of life is not as easy as it sounds. It’s as much a mental, emotional and physical struggle to sustain quality of life. Continue reading

Kids? Not right now, please…

Children and multiple sclerosis? Although life was good in my last relationship, I secretly decided that having children would probably not be on my list of things to do. Not because of the lack of love, but because I didn’t want to pass on my illness to my future son or daughter. When we eventually talked about possibly mixing my illness with his screaming babies and hectic lifestyle, I realised that in quiet, I made the right decision.

Being broody comes with being female, and despite my decision, I still get broody sometimes. If it wasn’t for MS, I absolutely would’ve wanted children. One of the few nice things about being chronically ill and being childless is however, when looking after children of friends and family, you can give their children back at night. I get to go back to my own cool, dark bedroom in my quiet house, and I have my broodiness resolved for a while. Continue reading

In a while!

A new post will be published here before Friday. Warm weather and a family visit joined my MS relapse which means time has been filled with lots of rest and relaxation. Looking forward now to writing again!

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And another one gone!

One day over 41, and mentally, I still feel like I’m 20. Physically, that’s a whole different matter altogether!

Our esteemed president of Ireland, Michael D. Higgins, once said “To be forgotten is to die twice.” Unless you don’t give a flying hoot about birthdays, people forgetting us on our birthday can sometimes feel a little bit… sad. That, however, is something I stopped doing a few years ago. Life goes on. Often not sure how, but it simply just… goes… on. Continue reading

FEATURED: The social swing of life

social-mediaLife isn’t viewed through our own two eyes anymore. We now let a smartphone be the first witness of things happening around us. We learn about other people’s lives, not by talking to, or observing them from a sun-drenched patio with a cool drink in front of us. Instead, we check out our friends’ Facebook pages and read their blogs. Direct communication seems a thing of the past. Continue reading

National Annual Awards 2014

It’s the season of nominations, so why add your vote in MS Ireland’s MS Person of the Year, MS Carer/Helper of the Year or MS Volunteer of the Year for the National Annual Awards 2014?

As you already know, I applaud Multiple Sclerosis Ireland for the hard work they put into helping those with MS, and fight for those who care for them. The society has received many mentions in my blog here, and for good reason. From the day of my diagnosis, now 9 year ago, I have had the best people listening to my initial denial to now being supported in raising my voice for other people with MS today.

Many people have had the chance of being part of a very vibrant volunteer network, or have been helped by them. For those volunteers, carers, helpers or a person with MS, the National Annual Awards have been created: “Our annual National Awards recognise those who through their dedication and selflessness play a significant role in the lives of others and the progress of the Society.”

So, if you’re a member of a Branch, an individual member or staff, and you know a member who you feel deserve recognition, please nominate your special person in one of the three categories:

The closing date for nominations is Friday, August 1st 2014.

For more details about the awards, contact Alice McKeon on alicem@ms-society.ie or on (01) 6781608 or drop in to your local Regional Office to pick up a form.

The 2014 awards will be presented at the Annual General Meeting in September.

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Game, set, relapse!

“Dwell on the beauty of life.
Watch the stars, and see
yourself running with them.”
(Marcus Aurelius, Meditations)

There’s no hiding when a MS relapse is in town. It arrived on my doorstep about 5 days ago, warts and all, and I’m still trying to hide. I could give you the nitty gritty technical bit of it, but I fear it wouldn’t read like a Booker prize novel. And that, is something I aspire to one day, just not today. Continue reading

FEATURED: Volunteering, a worthy cause

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Sometimes things happen in life you never saw coming. And sometimes, you feel utterly defenseless because you simply couldn’t step in to help.

But what if you create something good out of something so bad?

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Not my face!

162974080234952360_x4ok1y8s_fSomeone once said “Babe, you may have MS, but you’re still sexy. Never forget that.”

Shortly after my diagnosis, my then-boyfriend uttered those very words. He must have seen me look at myself in a critical manner one too many times since returning home from a two-week stint in hospital, wondering if ‘MS’ really was written on my face.

Even though I don’t usually give in to superficial words like this, and don’t necessarily follow fashion to a T, hearing his words did wonders for my mind. The relationship didn’t stand the test of time, but sometimes I still say those lines to myself. Nine years ago, his words became a quick-fix mantra to pick myself up when I needed a boost. Continue reading

Blogging anniversary!

new headerBlogging 3 years today.

283 posts.

36000 hits.

949 followers.

1 Blog Awards Ireland 2013 nomination.

1 Blog Awards Ireland 2013 shortlisted in the Best Personal Blog category.

Thank you!

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Positive MS News: May 2014

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With a 14-day delay in posting some positive news about MS, I’d like to offer my apologies and no, I absolutely haven’t forgotten about you. As many people with MS know, May is about the busiest month for those who advocate and volunteer. World MS Day is the main day of the year for MSers, but before and after… sigh… there’s a lot to be said, done and needless to say… lots of sleep to be had. So without further ado, here is some news that might make your lips curl and your mind coo! Continue reading

FEATURED: Irish public transport: access all areas?

The-new-footbridge-was-built-in-2004Ah, public transport in Ireland… Two-track train stations without elevators or escalators. Buses with seats for elderly or disabled people. Crutches or walking sticks you want to throw from the train or bus right into the Irish Sea.

We’ve all been there, needing escalators instead of high, rusty, wobbly, wet and windy staircases over train tracks. Sure, public transport in Ireland is slowly moving into the 21st century, with new footbridges being built with elevators inside them, but still… not fast enough because people with physical disabilities need more. Continue reading

Defined by myself, not my illness

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My name is Billie. I am a daughter, sister, aunt, niece, sister-in-law, cousin, granddaughter and simply a part of a special family.

I am, however, also an individual.

I am passionate, caring, goofy, alternative, tenacious and inquisitive.

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Rewind, Pause, Forward, Play

Life’s been very busy lately, hence no new posts for a while. It’ll be empty for another week or so, but I absolutely AM still writing away.

Right now so, it’s all about rewind, pause, forward and play!

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EMSP Spring Conference 2014, Dublin

emspThis year is the European Year of the Brain, and 2014 also marks the 25th birthday of the EMSP, the European MS Platform.

Unequivocally and visibly astonished, that’s what I am right this minute. The quality of yet another MS organisation and the hard work they do, makes me want to jump up and down. Digging deeper into the work of the EMSP because of their upcoming two-day conference in Dublin, I can only say one thing: ‘People with MS are in very, very good hands, with people with- or without MS standing up for them wherever they are.’

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MS Trust 21 Challenge

The MS Trust posed me a great question, asking me to help spread a word about the UK Awareness Week that runs from April 28th to May 4th. I do love a challenge,  so anyway I can help from my keyboard, I happily attack!

So, do you feel like a challenge? How about a fun way to raise awareness regarding MS? Check out the UK’s MS Trust website to be inspired, take a stance and do something worthwhile. MS Trust’s Awareness Week and we want you involved!

The trust was set up 21 years ago, and is celebrating this by inviting everyone to join their 21 day challenge and sponsor, shout and help others spread the word about MS Trust’s Awareness Week from April 28th to May 4th. Continue reading

The big, fat, ugly truth

heart-disease-life-insurance-300x236-300x336I am under attack.

Should have expected so, but in all cases starting with a C, you rather tend to ignore the truth.

GP nearly had a fit when overlooking my blood test results. Why?

The big… fat… very fat… C.

No, not cancer.

“Bad” cholesterol, in fact. Low-density lipoprotein (LDL).

Gulp.

Instead of below 5, mine turned out to be a shocking, whopping 9.6! When my doctor told me, he nearly had a fit himself, with me hyperventilating next to him. Continue reading

H.O.P.E. (Hold On, Pain Ends)

“The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something.
Don’t wait for good things to happen to you.
If you go out and make some good things happen,
you will fill the world with hope,
you will fill yourself with hope.”
(Barack Obama)

It has been a bit of a hectic, but a great time to write lately. Two bits of fantastic news came my way in regards to my writing, and I’ve been over the moon since.

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